Dont tell me what to do

Id like to believe that I'm pretty easy going. Although someone I love dearly recently told me that I'm anal... Anyway, that doesn't mean I'm not easy going, right? Never mind. I guess my point was that you can throw pretty much anything at me, but dont tell me what I can and cant do. That certainly makes me angry. It was quite hot out here and I wanted to spend some time outside with the kids. While I was out there, I decided to plant some of the dahlias that we had left (yes, lazy me! Some still are not in the ground. We didn't know where to plant them at the new house. Recently we just decided to stuff them all in the garden space to save them- this is besides my point). When I was all ready to plant until I was hot, my husband forbade me to be in the sun. He said that the heat isn't good for my MS blah blah blah. I told him that it would just make me have temporary symptoms that would go away shortly, but he didn't care to listen. Get back in the house before I'm in a wheel chair. Boy did that make me fume. Its okay to have me do a gazillion other things that could stress out my MS into a relapse, but when its something like heat (that only temporarily effects your MS, not causes further damage) and I'm just enjoying myself.. I'm a BIG GIRL. I can make up my own mind.